Rule #113 A well groomed man
As a woman I must say that a well groomed man is a true turn on! If you want more loving at home then come home looking and smelling like a million bucks! I don’t mean you have to wear Gucci and Louie but you do have to take a little more pride in your look on a regular basis. It seems that women are the only ones who are held to a higher standard when it comes to keeping it tight. Contrary to popular belief men are not the only ones who are visual creatures. Ladies are just as visual if not more. When a woman spots a well groomed man who makes an effort to stay in shape it turns her on no matter who she is.
When you walk in the house after a long day at work you should look just as good as you want your wife to look when you see each day. If your wife looks up and sees you walking in the house looking like a million bucks I can assure you she is extremely turned on even if she can’t get to you right at that moment she is looking forward to when she can. If you want to keep your wife interested in you then take the time to take care of yourself or you might run the risk of her looking elsewhere.
So guys please stop going weeks without getting a haircut. Stop coming in the house and throwing some smelly basketball shorts on and that same old raggedy t-shirt with those germ filled Nike flips flops that you have had for years! You lye around passing gas, burping, ashy as hell with a beer belly and rough feet. Believe me there is nothing hot about that. Then you hop in the bed with your wife and expect her to want to make love to you. If she does most of the time is out of obligation instead of sexual attraction. I know some of you may say you don’t care as long as you are getting “it” but there is a drastic difference between having sex with your husband because it’s your “duty” than it is when you make love to your husband because he still turns you on. Just remember when a woman spots a well groomed man from across the room it is magical. It is something about a well groomed man that gives a woman a little tingle.
Let’s talk a little spice chicas. I am not referring to the kind of spice that you use in the kitchen like salt or pepper. I am talking about that kind of spice you use in the bedroom to heat things up. As a woman I know it’s so easy to forget or neglect the spicy part of our relationship with our mates. We have so many responsibilities and things that we do as the woman of the house that we tend to push our sexiness to the bottom of the list of priorities. It’s time for you to tap into your inner heat and add a little spice to your love life.
Tip #101 – Role Play
Role play is a sure fire way to spice up your love life. Ladies it’s time for some grown woman fun with your hubby. Instead of just going out to buy some sexy lingerie how about you do something a little different. This time go out and get yourself a sexy new bad girl look. (sexy but not tacky ladies) Stop by your favorite Beauty Supply store and pick up a long sexy wig, some extravagant eye-lashes, some dramatic eye-shadow and some sexy lipstick/gloss. Then it’s time to find the perfect wardrobe for your character. Remember your shooting for spicy so the hotter the better ladies. Maybe you can get yourself a sexy black mini dress and stilettos with some fishnets.
Now that you have your spicy look together it’s time to put your plan in motion. Find a fancy hotel and rent a room and then send your husband/boyfriend a text and tell him to meet you at the hotel bar for a drink. (Be sure to let him know this is a role play kind of date so be prepared to have some fun) The note should tell him to have a seat at the bar and then wait for you. Once he is seated at the bar have the bartender take him a drink (his favorite drink) with a note that says, “Tonight my name is Peaches and I am looking for a one night stand, so play along and don’t ask any questions. Love you”. After he reads the note you should walk over to him and introduce yourself as if you are meeting him for the first time. It’s time to flirt a lot and drink even more. Before you get to wasted make sure you slip him the key to your room and tell him to give you 15 minutes and then come up. Let him know that you will be waiting for him in the bedroom. Remember ladies tonight your name is peaches (or whatever your alter ego name is) so play your role and have some fun with your man!