#FlipSide

7e53ee08-fafc-4c79-ade1-29e52fd3f64d_zps2978d58d  I don’t understand how a woman could be with a man that doesn’t have a real relationship with his kids?  I personally broke up with a guy solely because he did not have a real relationship with his kids.  He was a paper daddy  which means he paid his child support, on time and only spends time with them on special occasions.   A real relationship is when the do those things plus spending a lot of quality time with their kids.  If a man doesn’t feel like his kids are worth quality time then he is definitely not the man for me.   But on the flip side How can a man be with a woman who doesn’t want him to have a relationship with his children.  If a woman doesn’t want you to have a real relationship with your children then why would you want to be with her?   Is she that jealous that she can’t share you with your children?? or is she worried your going to be creepin with the baby mama?  Either way she doesn’t have you or your children best interest at heart. Well that’s just my opinion its not the law lol

#Tlj

#MyReflections ….The Lesson

ebcbd32a-af2a-4237-9445-ff33826239b1_zpsed0e7debThe lesson.

There is a lesson to learn within every struggle.  Patients is one of the lessons I’ve learned.  God works on his own time.  Sometimes we have to sit in the dirty laundry long enough to learn our lesson and let him work.   I promise you I know how hard it is to do that but I had to fight through a truly deep valley where I often felt alone but even in my weakest moment I found that damn mustard seed of faith and I held on tight to it.  Doing that helped me to be patient for a change and let Him do his work.  How many blessings have you missed out on because you weren’t patient enough to let God do his work?   Faith and patients go hand and hand