I had a talk with someone today who had a question so I am going to pose that same question to you. When a person sees that their close friend is dating a someone that treats them bad or is taking advantage of them tells their friend that they need to leave their mate why is it people tend to call that friend a hater or jealous? Is it not the job of a friend to tell their friend the Truth? or do you think she may be just a hater or jealous. and she should mind her business?